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The following is a guide to help you determine if your mate is cheating. After reading this list you may find there are some areas of concern. DO NOT CONFRONT THE CHEATER. This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them.
M.C.M. Investigations, home of CheckYourMate, has been working and dealing with hundreds of "domestic" related cases over the last 34 years and just recently received the "Lifetime Achievement Award" for their excellence in domestic cases from the National Association of Investigative Specialists.
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| • The cheating mate is more attentive |
• Cheating mates may lose interest in home activities |
| • The cheating mate finds fault with mate |
• The cheater may have a different attitude towards others |
A. At the beggining of an affair the mate that is cheating is more attentive to the other mate. This may be due to the feeling of guilt.
B. After the affair has been going on for a while the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair.
C. Cheating mates may lose interest in home repairs or involvement in home type activities.
D. " If he/she didn't act the way they do, maybe I wouldn't be doing the things I do ".
E. Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests. |
| • When it doesn't add up! Something is wrong. |
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| • Are there hidden bank accounts or credit cards? |
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Another sign is " finances ". If someone wants to play they have to pay, therefore keeping an eye on their finances would tell you if they are spending more money than they should. |
| Addtional Signs of Cheating |
| • Grooming Habits |
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| • Check Out Cell Phone Bills |
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Grooming habits will change. Cheaters will be more attentive to the way they dress, physical fitness may become important.
" When In Doubt Check Them Out " ! |
